Friday, April 30, 2010
26 weeks pregnant on my 26th Birthday!
That's right, I turned 26 years old this week AND "turned" 26 weeks pregnant on the same day! I should have bought a lotto ticket with the number 26 somehow =) This week was pretty much a great week. For those of you who know me, you know I celebrate a "birth month" rather than just a birthDAY. I mean, I only get one month out of the whole year to celebrate, so... I do. I'm not ridiculous, but I do pull the "it's my birthmonth" card if I need to throughout April. Brandon is used to it by now and most of the time just laughs at me. He is probably secretly really annoyed that I do something so childish the whole month, but he humors me anyway =) Thanks babe! This week on Tuesday, my office at work had my birthday lunch. My coworkers go all out for birthdays. They are cause for celebration (aka EATING) in our office so we love a good birthday. The birthday girl/boy gets to pick what they want to eat and this year I wanted a make-your-own nacho/taco bar. A woman in my office (who used to be a Spanish interpreter) makes wonderful Mexican food and volunteered to bring all of the food for the nachos/tacos and BOY was it delicious. I made a HUGE burrito stuffed with refried beans, ground beef, lettuce, salsa, nacho cheese, sour cream, etc. and ate every bite (and a second one for a snack later!) A girl who is fairly new in our office made me homemade cupcakes- which were DELICIOUS- AND she brought in homemade monkey bread for us to have for breakfast that day! I felt so special! And to top it all off, they got me a singing birthday card, YES, singing! AND little baby trinkets, like a UNC beenie, some rattles, a bottle, and some tiny little socks. Needless to say, my 26th birthWEEK was off with a bang and I SO enjoyed it! (In fact, my mouth is watering just typing this!)
Saturday was Brittney and Cole's housewarming party (for which I made YET ANOTHER strawberry shortcake- I've lost count I've made so many the last few weeks). We left the housewarming party to go pick up our crib... the one I told you about before that was the one we originally wanted that the little baby boutique owner was going to sell to us for half price! And we were going to pick up our glider that we had purchased the week before. Well, we got to the baby store, went inside to look at the crib and Brandon and I just looked at each other and back at the crib. Neither one of us wanted to say it, but this was NOT our dream crib. We weren't impressed... at all. And in fact, we didn't even like it. We were so disappointed and as I was trying to get away from the store owner's husband to talk to Brandon (just a side note, if you are a sales person, periodically leave your customer to go "check on something" or "get something" or whatever so that your customers can talk to their spouse... especially if the purchase is more than a few hundred dollars!) to tell him that I didn't really like the crib and find out if he felt the same way. As I was walking back towards the front of the store, I stopped in front of another crib and couldn't help but think that THAT crib was what I pictured in my nursery. Brandon and I talked it over and decided that the crib we had come to pick up was not the crib for us and that we wanted this other crib that we had looked at before but not really ever paid much attention to until now. The more I looked at this crib, the more I could picture it in our nursery at home with my little man sleeping in it. I looked at Brandon and we walked right up to the cash register and told the owner and her husband that we wanted to buy that crib. The crazy part... the crib we bought was over $500 less than the one we went there to pick up!!! We were ecstatic! AND, we're in love with the crib we bought!
My mom and brother were meeting us for dinner, my choice of course since it was my birthday, and I chose yummy Maggiano's. I always get the chicken and spinach manacotti and it didn't let me down. Then we shopped for a little bit and the boys went to go pick up our glider.
The next morning we went to church and then went to eat at Dan Thai, which is a fabulous little restuarant. I highly recommend it and it might just be this town's best kept secret. The service there is amazing and the food is so fresh and delicious.
Sunday night we had reservations at a Japanese steakhouse with Brandon's family and everyone came! Nana and Pop, Bradley and Tiffany, Brittney and Cole and Corben, Joan and Rodney and Wendy's family too! I felt so special to have everyone there in the same place for my birthday! Corben has been afraid to go to Japanese steakhouses because of the little fire show they do at the beginning and this time was no different. He WAILED. Like screamed and cried like he was going to die. He is truly fearful of the fire. I felt so bad because we were in a room to ourselves with 2 back to back grills (because we had so many people there) and our chef finished his fire thing and we all told Corben not to worry, that it was over and no sooner were those words out of our mouths than "Whoosh!" the other chef lit his grill up and the flames soared up just as high and Corben freaked again. Poor thing.
How far along? 26 weeks 4 days
Weight gain? I go next week and will be weighed... I feel like a heffer.
maternity clothes? Mostly yes.
Sleep? I've figured out my pillow situation... that has helped my sleep some...
stretch marks? Not yet...
belly button in or out? Still half in half out.
Best moment this week? My birthday!!!! and getting to celebrate it with all the people in the world I love most! And buying our crib!
movement? he's an active little fella =)
food cravings? well after my birthday lunch at work, i can't stop thinking about nachos =)
Food aversions? coffee
what I'm looking forward to... getting the crib (its being shipped to the store) actually in the nursery
milestones.... BabyCenter.com says he's putting on baby fat now! (how cute!!) and he is 14 inches long... wow!!
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
25 weeks
Another thing we did Saturday was register at Babies R Us. I have several observations from creating our baby registry:
1) First time parents should never go alone. Take someone who has recently had a baby with you. Otherwise you will never survive.
2) Babies R Us should employ workers to walk around with couples to tell them about certain products and their parts (just for example bottles and breast pumps) OR edit their "must have" list to say not just "bottles" but "bottles, nipples for each age and stage of the first year, nipples for thicker fluids and thinner fluids, a bottle drying rack, a bottle dishwasher cage, a bottle cleaning wire brush, and a formula holder thingy." Not to mention all of the OTHER bottle parts I forgot about! We scanned a package of bottles and started to walk away and THANK GOODNESS Brittney was with us because she pointed out all the other crap you have to get.
3) Each product should have a pro-con list taped next to the price. How the heck do I know if the Diaper Genie is better than the Arm n Hammer Diaper Pail?? Does twisting off the bag kill the smell more than baking soda? I dunno, I've never had a kid!!!
4) Have chairs, or better yet, sofas, stationed throughout the aisles because remember, PREGNANT WOMEN are involved here!! Do they not know that we are EXHAUSTED and CANNOT STAND/WALK for that long??? I'm sorry, but I was about to keel over and was dangerously close to sitting in a stroller and wheeling myself around. My back and my feet were screaming at me after carseats, and that was the second aisle we went down!!
5) Offer couples a snack before embarking on this journey or at least tell me where I can find a Twix and a smoothie since after all, I WILL be hungry in 20 minutes (no matter when I last ate). Why would you ever ship a pregnant woman off to wander 50+ aisles of foreign objects (that SHE MUST HAVE in order to be a good mother) with no survival pack or at least a granola bar? This seems so simple to me, yet why aren't they doing this?
Don't get me wrong, I had a ton of fun registering. However, I was completely and utterly overwhelmed. Not to mention exhausted and starving. Those are just some tips I have for Babies R Us. I thought that when we went in and sat down and the nice lady started talking that she certainly was going to go around with us to explain things. Oh no. "Here's the scanner gun and your list, have fun!" Um, ok? Did I mention I'm a first time parent? Did I mention that I have no idea what to get or how many? Did I mention that I'm scared to death I'll pick the wrong carseat and will end up killing my child? Did I mention that I'm completely in awe of those little machines that are gonna squeeze milk out of my boobs (excuse my frankness) and have no idea which one to pick? DID I MENTION THAT THIS IS TERRIFYING??? HELLO! Has no one at Babies R Us ever had kids?? What the heck? Plus, I haven't even mentioned the fact that all other parents we know keep telling us "Oh, you'll never use or need half the stuff you register for." Ok then, WHICH HALF??? I know this is dangerous but all you parents out there, I'm inviting you to go look at our registry online (I think you just go to Babies R Us and then search our names) and let us know what stuff we really will need and what stuff we won't. Then tell me in the most loving way possible, because remember, I spent 3 hours in that store agonizing over each and every product we scanned... tired, hungry, and overwhelmed. So be gentle.
One more thing... to all of you who have told me I look like I swallowed a basketball or a volleyball. THANK YOU. Even though this is not true -well obviously I didn't swallow a basketball- I'm guessing you can't see past my belly to look at these thunder thighs or are just too kind to tell me how fat my cheeks have gotten. But thank you. You have no idea what this does to a pregnant girl's self esteem. I honestly feel a little buoyed each time someone tells me this (even though I know the truth!) and it means so much that you would tell me I look great even when I feel oh so fat. So thank you to all you kind, kind people. I sincerely mean that.
Survey...
How far along? 25 weeks 2 days
Weight gain? I'm choosing to ignore this until my doctor's appointment. In the beginning I only wanted to gain 25, now I'm just praying that I don't gain more than 40 pounds!!
maternity clothes? Yes and no. I'm still wearing my regular jeans and tops and then also wearing some maternity tops and pants. Its hard putting cute outfits together when you just aren't shaped the same anymore...
Sleep? Some good, some bad. Saturday night was roooouuugh. I woke up every hour or two hours and just could not get comfortable. I've started sleeping with my maternity pillow and another pillow to try to cope.
stretch marks? Not yet but my tummy sure does feel tight some days =/
belly button in or out? This question wasn't on my survey but I've seen it on some of my other friends' surveys so I decided to add it. Belly button is definitely half in, half out. Its been this way for about 3 or 4 weeks now and I'm just waiting for any day now to look down and see an outie.
Best moment this week? Spending all day Saturday with my best friend doing stuff for our baby =)
movement? More and more every day it seems! There's just nothing like feeling my little baby squirm and kick and tap dance on my ribs. Some days if he kicks in the same spot a few times, I'll gently poke my stomach in the same area and he'll kick back! Its a little game we play =)
food cravings? No strong cravings this week really...
Food aversions? coffee
what I'm looking forward to... hopefully bringing my baby boy's crib home sometime this week!
milestones... Ok, this week BabyCenter.com says he weighs a pound and a half! I guess that's why his kicks have felt so much stronger!!
Thursday, April 15, 2010
24 Weeks
Completely worth the sweat and rubbery leg feeling. It was so beautiful there and I'm so glad we went. It was a great workout and I really had a lot of fun. It really was a lot harder than I originally thought it was going to be but we had so much fun laughing about how hard it was (well hard for me and Suz!) and catching up that we really didn't care. After our hike we went to downtown Blacksburg so I could shop for baby hokie clothes. I found a set of 3 onsies that are super cute that I can't wait for my little hokie baby to wear AND in one of the stores, Whitney found an adorable maternity shirt! It says "Future Hokie" on the front with an aorrw pointing to my belly and of course I had to get it! =) Later that night we ended up spending some time with Whitney's mom (talking about coupons, of all things!) and just catching up. Then we went to dinner and went back to watch a movie (yes, we are getting old and yes none of us made it through the whole movie without falling asleep!). Sunday morning, Whitney's dad cooked us breakfast! It was so sweet of him! We had made-to-order omlets and fresh fruit and bagels! Yum-yum-yum! The pregnant girl was happy =)
Thanks for a great weekend girls! Can't wait til our get-together at Susan's house with Sierra! =)
On Friday night Brandon and I got to go have dinner with Warren and Emily at their house. They are a couple who have been coming to our church for a while now and are super sweet! (Remember, Emily is the one who so graciously is letting me wear some of her maternity clothes!) We grilled out (because preggo here has been craving that grilled food taste all week) and Warren made some yummy burgers and we had Emily's fantastic baked beans and some chips and pasta salad. Then for dessert we had this...
This was the before picture of me holding it in the car on the way over. I wanted proof that it was whole when we left our house, in the event that a bite went mysteriously missing before we arrived. Just sayin... This was actually the second strawberry shortcake I made this week. I'm not trying to brag, but this sucker was pretty darn good. Musta been the strawberries or something because I'm telling you, Warren, Emily, Brandon and I ate most of this thing Friday night! Yeah, I'm serious! Warren and Emily have a 4 month old, Ruby, who is just the cutest little thing. I was so glad that they let me hold her and "practice" because Ruby is such a good baby and I wasn't scared off at all =) I guess it helps that I only held her when she was laughing and then when she was hungry I gave her right back to her Momma =) I'm no dummy.
I thought while I'm posting some pictures I'd show you guys a crazy before and after set of pictures. Of course, this before picture is after a lot of work had actually been done at the church, but I think you'll get the idea.
Ok, here is the stage before...
And here is the stage during our first service on Easter Sunday (Brandon is on stage in this picture!)And here's another shot of the stage (with Brittney singing!)
Here's this week's survey:
How far along? 24 weeks 3 days (since I haven't had time to blog until Wednesday!)
Weight gain? haven't weighed myself this week... still up 18 lbs I'm sure
maternity clothes? Yes and no. Its a little tricky figuring out my outfits because while some things fit, they aren't actually that comfortable anymore soooo... I'm thinking some clothes shopping is in my future since my birthday is coming up!
Sleep? Not great, not horrible. Still getting up to go to the bathroom some nights, other nights I must be so exhausted because I don't wake up to go to the bathroom until right before my alarm goes off...
stretch marks? Not yet, but this week I had some really weird pains on my sides, like where my ribs are, and I couldn't figure out what they were until Emily asked me over dinner if I had had any muscle pain yet from my muscles stretching... bingo. That's exactly what the pain was. My abs were slowly ripping apart... aaaaggghhh...
Best moment this week? seeing my college roommates again!
movement? Oh yes, he's an active little fella =)
food cravings? strawberry shortcake and anything grilled on the grill!
Food aversions? coffee
what I'm looking forward to... hopefully buying baby furniture and bedding this week for my baby boy!
milestones... Ok, this week BabyCenter.com says he is about as long as an ear of corn! Oh my goodness! Does anyone else LOVE the food references? Plus, baby boy is now a little over a pound.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
23 Weeks
The volunteer service I mentioned just briefly a minute ago was actually our first service in our NEW BUILDING! Let me just tell you how proud I am of my husband and the rest of the staff of Pine Ridge Church. They busted their tails to get this building done on time and they did a fantastic job. Please join me in congratulating them on a job well done because hunny, they deserve it. And if this were any other line of work other than ministry, they'd be getting a week off work for all the hard work they put it. But... this is the ministry we're talking about, they never truly get time off. Anyways, I didn't see my husband for about a week and a half. I mean, I SAW him when I got up in the morning and kissed him goodbye but other than that, I didn't see him. He was home each night between 11:00pm and 2:00am. Yes, those were some mighty long days. Did I mention how proud I am of my husband? He told me last week "I'm not the most skilled person out there, I don't know how to run electrical lines or put in plumbing" but buddy he sure did put in some good long hours and lots of sweat. I got a call one night and he asked me if we had some Dawn dish detergent because he needed to bathe in that since he'd spend a good amount of time in the ceiling that day. What!? In the ceiling?! Wow! Like I said, he worked until he was exhausted and then worked some more. I just hope everyone at PRC knows just how hard the staff and some of our volunteers worked last week. We had some of our volunteers work thru the night! Craziness! But that IS the Pine Ridge way... we are most certainly crazy and I hope that other people can see its because we're crazy about this vision that was given to a man who was told by God to start a church in our little town. We'll do whatever it takes. Even sacrificing seeing our spouses for a week or two, even laboring thru the night, even eating fast food for 47 meals straight to get it all done because Easter Sunday it all paid off. We had over 500 people there at church and 20 of them gave their lives to Jesus!! Wow!!
Well I guess you've all been waiting for it... probably not, but here's my weekly survey anyways =)
How far along? 23 weeks 2 days (since I didn't get around to writing this until Tuesday!)
Weight gain? weeeell... I'm embarrassed and completely disappointed in myself that I have almost gained 20 pounds so far! Don't even think about telling me its ok, I'm supposed to gain weight, etc etc... because I told myself that I only wanted to gain 25 pounds with this baby and it doesn't look like that is an option now since I've officially gained 18 pounds in only 23 weeks! All I gotta say is that come August and September, if I'm not sweating, chase me so I start running because I am going to have to work HARD to get this weight off...
maternity clothes? yes, i've gained 18 pounds and i'm still wearing my skinny jeans and regular shirts because I keep thinking that as long as I'm wearing my regular clothes, I'm not fat... I did, however, wear my first maternity shirt this week... It was very comfy and very cute and I actually didn't feel as whale-like in it... I was pleased =)
Sleep? Yes please. Actually, I've noticed that I've been so exhausted lately that I will wake up in exactly the same position that I go to sleep in... how do I know this? Because my left arm is fast asleep when I wake up since it is the arm i stick under my pillow.
stretch marks? None yet but I'm feeling my skin getting tighter and tighter and I'm lotioning this bump up every chance I get!
Best moment this week? Easter Sunday in our new building with my family there. And, baby boy was kicking constantly throughout the service so I think its safe to say he likes church already =)
movement? All the time and all over the place! (And by all over the place I mean the small space he has to move around in between my hips and my ribs haha!)
food cravings? smoothies... any kind of frozen drink... maybe its because the weather has warmed up and my throat is sore from my allergies...
Food aversions? coffee
what I'm looking forward to... picking out baby Hokie clothes for my tiny son this weekend!
milestones... Babycenter says he now weighs a pound!! Oh my goodness! How cute! But he better stay in there and grow to a good healthy weight before he decides to enter this world! =)
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Random Pregnancy Thoughts...
Well, I did the math... Each tub of wipes has 64 wipes. If you use at the bare (haha, little pun in there) minimum of just 3 wipes per diaper change (I know, I know, this doesn't include those explosive diapers but I'm just thinking at a minimum here...) that is enough wipes for approximately 20 diaper changes. Now, I don't know how many times you change an infant each day but lets just say at the minimum you change the baby's diaper 5 times a day. Feel free to correct me if my assumptions are ridiculously off base because this will affect the whole math equation! Based on my assumptions, this means we will go through approximately 2 boxes of baby wipes a week. That's 8 boxes a month, and 96 boxes a year... For at least 2 years. And they say boys are harder to pottytrain than girls so make that 3 years. At that rate, I'll need to buy (or get free hopefully) 288 boxes of baby wipes. And that's for just one baby. And for only using wipes to wipe his tiny little bottom. And if I only used 3 wipes per change.
So basically I'm looking at a future of 300 boxes of wipes. So far I have 10. Is anyone else slightly dismayed at this fact?
Oh I'll get them free. Don't worry about the cost. I've got a 5 month head start on the little man and his little tushie (that I'm gonna wipe... and wipe... and wipe) and I'm planning on taking advantage of every sale and every coupon on wipes so if I knock you over in the store to get to a box of wipes, I apologize now, ahead of time. I'm just looking at 3 years of wiping in front of me.
Now I haven't even thought about diapers... =/